Lady Cries Out For Help As Boyfriend Refuses To Propose After 10 Years Of Dating, 4 Abortions
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A woman has sought advice after entangling herself in a dire and critical situation.
The woman who preferred to remain anonymous said she has been in a relationship with her current boyfriend for ten years and counting. It started during their varsity days.
Within the period, she revealed that she had terminated at least four pregnancies after she mistakenly conceived.
The woman said she has been patiently waiting for the guy to propose to her but that such words have not been forthcoming. She mentioned that she loves him so much and that he also loves her the same way.
When she decided to take the bull by the horn and confront him about the matter, the lady said the guy cited financial difficulties.
Boyfriend Refuses To Propose
According to her, the guy earns N50,000 monthly – which he feels is not enough to start a family as he doesn’t want his children and the woman to suffer.
But the lady said they could cut their coat according to their cloth and manage with the 50k, especially as she is also working.
Time appears not to be on the lady’s side, prompting her to seek advice on social media.
Boyfriend Refuses To Propose
She wrote: “I have been dating this guy for 10years now. My relationship with him started since my university school days. Ever since we graduated and started working, I have been expecting him to propose to me, which he didn’t.
“I have aborted 4 times for him. When I confronted him, he said he needs a tangible source of income first before he will marry me. That he doesn’t want his kids to suffer. His current salary is 50k, yet he doesn’t want us to go into marriage now.
“I personally told him that we can manage what we have and plan our life together since I’m also working. But he said no, his reason is that he doesn’t want us to suffer.
Boyfriend Refuses To Propose
“Please I need advice. I don’t know what to do and we love each other very much. Please hide my ID.”
Social media users have offered some pieces of advice:
“10 good years? Leave him and change your environment. Your husband is somewhere searching for you,” a Facebook user said.
“Quit the relationship and move on. Your losses so far stands at, 4 abortions, 10 unprofitable years. Just imagine how one of those aborted souls would be by now if the guy was responsible enough. Leave him to keep planning his life. He can decide to marry at 60 and still have his children but as a woman, you won’t try that. Make yourself available to meet men that are serious and ready for marriage,” another user said.
A third added: “Accept him with his opinion by faith and praying to God for open door for him n also try to encourage Him by word of advice, bc u can only succeed to move the cow to the river but cannot force him to drink if he love u, u don’t need to tell him marry me but he will move by himself to do so.”
Boyfriend Refuses To Propose
