1) Unconditional love: Don’t ever love because of one thing or the other

2) Always see your spouse as the best gift God ever give to you

3) Never try to look at each other weak point, rather correct it and move on.

4) Never in your life report your wife or husband weakness to anybody, even your family members or pastor.

5) Perfect understanding: understand each other very well, don’t joke with eyes communication.

6) Understand that everything cannot work 100 percent perfect , because in marriage there are storms, and get ready to face the storms squarely without fear of anything.

7) Never in your life reject anything he or she does, ready to Love and welcome everything thing he or she does, even though there is fault, then correct him or her later if there was fault.

8) Correction can’t never depart from you people, correct each other in lovely manner and secret , and make him or her feel special

9) Never in your compare each other with another person no matter how it is, because you don’t know their secret.

10) Don’t ever demand for much, when you know he or she can’t offer it, Be very contented with what he or she can offer

11) Appreciate his or her effort, it can bring more when you appreciate

12) Encourage each other: Don’t joke with this, it is very important in marriage, it help marriage to grow, and help someone to feel relief.

13) Always share anything you have togather, it straightened the love more.

14) Don’t keep malice

15) Don’t keep secret

16) Remember you all human being not God, that each must have mistake

17) Show each other love, both in secret and public

18) Have night discussion, tell each other how him or her is important to the family

19) Remember to tell each other how much you love him or her

20) Above all always pray together and fear God

From Dee